Priorities
Success minded people at the beginning of their day have some idea of what they want to accomplish. Those who have been at their craft for many years may be able to keep a list in the mind. Many of us begin the day with a written list. For some reason the ritual of making the list imprints it upon the day and the focus is sharper than otherwise.
Stephen Covey
Covey wrote the classic work on effectiveness with his Opus, “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.” The book has no peers. I will summarize the habits below, from memory:
- Be Proactive - No excuses, you are fully responsible for your life
- Begin with the End in Mind - Create the vision before executing
- First Things First - Important things are never subordinated to unimportant things
- Seek first to Understand then to be Understood - This sequence is important for Influence
- Think Win-Win - Think long term when making deals.
- Synergize - If you can get the group into a creative zone, with ideas flowing, you understand this.
- Sharpen the Saw - take care of you Body, Mind, Heart, and Spirit or you will pay the price of neglect.
Tim Ferriss
Tim Ferriss in his book, “The 4 Hour Workweek,” explains the 80-20 rule of a priority list. What are the 2 things I need to do today that will give me the greatest output in accomplishing my goals? No more than 2! In time, you may get to the higher level of effectiveness where you only put one item on the list - this is when you know you really have yourself together! For us mortals, no more than 2 items on the list.
Priority Means Focus
When I began my career, I followed a training program that a Covey spinoff suggested, using a Franklin Planner. You would list all the things you had to do for the week, and then put them on schedule for each day of the week. Then, for each day, you would label each item on the checklist A, B and C. A items had to be done today. B items may slip until tomorrow, but no further. C items could be done anytime that week, or could slip to the next week.
What is the problem here? There is no focus. There is a list of crap on paper. We need to delegate and outsource everything to a point where we have no more than 2 things on our list every day as Priority.
When you have a list of crap that you “have to do,” most people are overwhelmed and often give up and go back to the “seat of the pants” life of the moment. This is not good. You have to write down what you need to accomplish, and you have to do it in a way that you are not overwhelmed. So, one or two priorities! There is nothing wrong with a list in the background that you look at every week or so. But, you cannot be looking at the long list every day, because you will lose focus on the Priority Item - Number one and number two.
Maturity
Someone famous once said that the essence of maturity is making choices. When you choose one option, you destroy the alternative. When you spend one hour eating lunch in New York, you destroy the option of eating lunch in Miami. Time cannot be gotten back.
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Freddy Martini